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Splitting up with a narcissist is half the battle - the other half is the aftermath of the breakup. My ex didn't take the split well (as most narcissists don't), and started a campaign of harassment and stalking against me. This book will give you a glimpse of the abuse I endured after the breakup and give you an overview of what it is about us that attracts a narcissist. I'll also give you some advice about staying safe and guarding yoursel...

Were you raised by a mother who put her needs and wants before yours? Does your mother make you think that her love is conditional and that it will be stripped of you if you don't meet her expectations? Does your mother consistently make you feel inadequate, empty and riddled with sadness? Does she always seem to disappoint you, making you feel worthless and abandoned by her? I know all of the above feelings all too well. I was brought up by a...

What Do I Do So Wrong?' is an in-depth introduction to the narcissistic mother.Often the characteristics of a narcissistic mother can be brushed off as her being 'difficult' or 'overbearing'. In reality, the narcissistic mother hides many damaging behaviours that are a very real form of childhood abuse. This can be difficult for adult children of narcissistic mothers to come to terms with and comprehend, especially with the term 'narcissistic'...

Covert narcissism is a more hidden and concealed form of narcissism, making it all the more difficult for the abuser to be confronted or 'outed' for their behavior.Covert narcissism is a passive-aggressive, hostile and toxic form of abuse that makes victims feel hopeless, unheard, hurt and confused by the abusers behavior. When you think of a narcissistic personality, it's likely you think of a loud, grandiose and 'look at me' type of characte...

The devastation of a controlling relationship has to be endured to be believed. From the constant fear of upsetting your spouse, the walking on eggshells in case you've done or said something wrong, or the relentless feeling of anxiety, a controlling partner will beat you down until you no longer recognize yourself. Coercive control will see an abuser dominate their victim's life, from the food they eat, the people they see, the places th...

If your relationship is so bad, why don't you just leave them?''If you were in such an abusive relationship, why did you stay with them for so long?''If you knew you were in a relationship with such a toxic person, why didn't you ask people for help?'If you've ever been asked these questions, aside from being ignorant and hurtful, you'll know it's beyond frustrating. The answer to the above questions, whilst it's complex and often confusing, c...

Hurtful criticism. Nasty 'jokes'. Angry outbursts for seemingly no reason. Verbal attacks towards your innocent comments. Stole-cold silent treatment. Manipulative actions to ensure you don't know if you're coming or going. Sound familiar?The phrase to summarize the above abhorrent treatment is narcissistic rage.The words 'narcissistic' and 'rage' are bad enough by themselves. When you merge them together, it becomes a force to be reckoned wit...

In order to overcome a narcissistic relationship, there are two ways out: be discarded for the final time from the narcissist, or go no contact and cut yourself away from your abuser.Neither option is pretty, and I can't deny that both are painful. However, when you claim back your power by making the decision to go no contact, you give yourself the ability to leave the relationship with dignity, newfound self-respect and the makings of a soli...