Men! Is your marriage falling apart? Do you know how to fix it?What does your wife want you to know about her?

Every husband has the power to heal his marriage or destroy it. What a woman needs from marriage is totally different than what a man needs. Learning to do the things that communicate love to your wife can change everything.


Becoming a Godly Husband is the culmination of thousands of hours of counseling, teaching, studying, and mentoring couples. This revised edition illuminates time-honored principles for a thriving marriage with enhanced exercises, guiding questions, and examples from real couples. Using the acrostic H.U.S.B.A.N.D., ask yourself these questions:

HonorDo you treat your wife better than anyone else?

UnderstandingAre you quick to apologize and learn more about how she thinks, feels, and chooses? Are you more interested in the relationship than getting your own way?
SecurityDo you provide the security she needs financially, mentally, spiritually, and physically?
Build UnityAre you leading her toward wisdom and unity, or is she sometimes your enemy?
AgreementDo you know how to make decisions together without conflict?
NurtureWhat nurtures her spirit, mind, body, and soul?
DefendDo you protect her from what will derail or destroy her?

If you answered "no" to any of these questions, this book is perfect for you-the starting place to make deliberate, positive steps forward to become the husband she deserves for the marriage you both deserve.