A proper marriage is very wonderful and very beautiful, however, it is possible to stay married and be doing the "right thing" too long. God does not want us to be a "sacrificial victim" for the "sake of the marriage". As painful as this may sound when dealing with a marriage, divorcing or "making one into two" is necessary and needed to save and preserve life. God's priority is to save the people of the marriage, not necessarily the marriage itself. If God hates divorce, then he must have his approval on the marriage. If God hates the marriage, he must have his approval on the divorce. Divorce itself is not wrong, but when it's used for selfish pleasure, it is! The real question is, "which divorce does God hate?" To which divorce did God say, "I hate divorce"?