Just about all of us have a desire to be at the top in our job, sport or social circle.You've heard it before - if we want it hard enough, and follow certain techniques, we can reach the pinnacle of worldly success.The problem is, there can only be a handful of winners when it's defined like that. Even if you achieve that sort of success, and become a wealthy winner - there must be losers. What if there were other pinnacles you could reach without standing on others? There is. You can be at the top in your relationships, happiness and quality of life and still be among friends! To get there, we have to go against our 21st Century instincts - try some ideas that aren't always obvious or easy - to reach the top of life, not at the top of the pile.