A Book Specifically for the Parent without Primary CustodyThere's an unfair stigma attached to being the parent who does not have the most parenting time. Children need two involved parents and no matter what your parenting schedule, you have a very important role in your child's life. Being an active and engaged parent is absolutely possible.Written by a former attorney who worked in family and divorce court representing parents and children in custody cases, this is your complete road map to parenting after a divorce or separation. Filled with supportive, straight-to-the-point advice, this title covers: Making the most of your time with our child Creating and managing parenting schedules Communicating clearly and calmly with the other parent Solving conflict when it arises Coping with long-distance parenting Making sure transitions between parents go smoothly Planning for holidays and special occasions, including the times you do not have your child What to do if your child doesn't want to spend time with you Understanding what your child is going through by age Dealing with social media Coping with a custodial parent who wants to control everything Getting through dark momentsSolving the day-to-day problems that arise in co-parenting Making changes when the custody plan is not workingThoughtful advice, practical tips, and detailed suggestions allow you to move forward and create a reasonable relationship with your ex and a happy life with your child. Brette Sember, JD is a former divorce and family law attorney and law guardian. She is the author many other books about divorce, including the companion volume to this title, Parenting Together Apart: For the Residential Parent. Her web site is www.BretteSember.com.