In Please Don't Say You're Sorry, divorce attorney Nicole Sodoma gives readers a clear picture as to whether they can fix their marriage or move forward with separation or divorce and empowers them to move forward with courage and hope. When marriage-loving divorce attorney, Nicole Sodoma separated from her husband of thirteen years, she found herself seated in a symphony of sympathies. She quickly began to question why it is that people say "congratulations" when we marry and "I'm sorry" when we divorce. There's no denying that divorce sucks. The journey can be wholly overwhelming and emotionally exhausting, but it also doesn't have to be the worst things that's ever happened to you. In Please Don't Say You're Sorry, Sodoma offers up a heaping serving of humorous realities and empowering principles for a real marriage (and how to know when that's just not possible and what to expect from there). Equally hopeful and insightful, Sodoma offers a fresh perspective on marriage, separation, and divorce, serving up stories from her experience living blended with divorced parents, her own divorce, and more than two decades as a family law attorney leading others through the divorce process. From hard truths about seeking sole custody and court proceedings, to deeply relatable tales from divorces past, her leave-nothing-out, relatable communication style makes it easy to feel deeply understood and no longer alone in the moments when trying to render those seemingly impossible decisions. Whether you are looking for advice on how to better your marriage, are considering separation, or find yourself knee-deep in divorce, this book has something for you. Today is the first day of the rest of your life and you've now got a badass, no holds barred, divorce attorney by your side.