Are you an abuser? This book is filled with information for an honest self-evaluation. I was an abuser, but I made the necessary changes to stop that destructive behavior. I did it because I truly love my husband and I do not want to ever hurt him. I do not want him to fear me and I never want to control him. As domestic violence continues to plague society, there are survivors of injustice who are speaking out. Statistics show an increase, even among men. Read these survival accounts and the words of hope and encouragement within these pages. In addition, there are resources for safety and warning signs. Use these warning sign to evaluate yourself honestly. Prevention is also covered as much as it can be. Inflicting domestic abuse is a choice. You do not have to be a victim or remain a silent casualty. There is help.